Trust makes relationships work
Well I’m not Dr. Love but I’m gonna say it, corny as it may sound: You can’t love someone if you don’t trust him/her.
This past few days taught me how comfortable you become with your loved one if you trust this person. I know. I did a lot of stuff I’d never thought I’d do but I don’t feel any guilt. I did it for the both of us.
Trust clears up your head and doesn’t create any of that tension between the two of you. It lets the relationship breathe and grow. Without it, one of you will start to get claustrophobic, panic and lose hope in the relationship… until such time when one of you gives way - a break up.
One way to get your someone trust you is just plain be honest. Tell everything! And you’ll also thank yourself by getting rid of that extra baggage.
I’m more than happy with my relationship right now and we’re working to make it last a lifetime. Just some technicalities (like how to get a working visa and plane ticket) that we both need to sort out.
caren said:
Relationship is at its weakest when there is more doubt than trust…it is at its strongest when both learns to deeply trust despite all the doubts.:)..
caren said:
I am happy for you…though your dream (that is to have a working visa and plane ticket)is still on the distant horizon..just keep on going..who knows?step by step, you’ll have it ..maybe tommorow?next month or next year.Love will find its way!
Jeai said:
Thanks for that Caren! I’m very optimistic that I’ll get to that point when everything’s just right. All I have to do is to be patient. :D
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